the big dude a pseudo 'bear cub' or 'band mate' a male friendship someone who can guard you and working together on missions so same sex non sexual buds a serious alternate to traditional marriage 'your boy' as we go on

 i have an older brother and that may have conditioned me to different thoughts (eg not fighting) anyways here's this one it's like having a 'big guy' friend so like if there's likely (eg at a party) to be a fight or a chance of that knowing someone who could protect me someone who would dwarf the competition see weight lifters and other traits tallness

so then other male friends so like one would be when you see lifelong band mates like keith and mick or paul and ringo or the eagles tim armstrong and lars frederickson the punks or even animal lovers jake the dog and finn the human from adventure time superman and his dog um so some of that being like a pseudo team or sticking with not a marriage forever but that connection but the part about sustaining that as opposed to just letting it wither and disappear

so the 'bear cub' stuff some of that rationale thinking of all the things that can go wrong with a heterosexual relationship like for example divorce and garnishments or child support so that's like the other side male brotherhood and male pastimes drinking beers bikers um musicians and another one not being at risk to get 'mauled' by someone see different foolish behaviors

then more stuff getting lumped with the 'lgbtq' stuff that system and those formalities lessons learned on behaviors and what'll work or not um so the gay community and those neighborhoods the logic behind that conclusion being trained to not try anymore

so then again that countered with staying alone um so the theatre lessons waiting for godot a christmas carol camelot so the staging and unfolding les miserables um how easy it can be hanging with the bros the future from there